Most people struggle with first messages on adult dating platforms. Here are simple openers that get more replies.
1. Comment on Their Photos
Example:
“That beach photo looks amazing — where was it taken?”
Personal = higher chance of response.
2. Use Flirty but Respectful Humor
Example:
“I was going to use a cheesy pick-up line, but I’ll save it for message #2.”
Light flirting works well.
3. Ask a Quick Either/Or Question
It’s fun and easy to answer:
- Coffee or wine?
- Night owl or early riser?
- Stay in or go out?
4. Give a Genuine Compliment
Avoid superficial or overly sexual comments.
Example:
“You have a great smile — it looks very natural.”
5. Be Direct If You Want a Faster Connection
Example:
“You seem cool. Want to switch to Telegram?”
Confidence helps move things forward.
